Five Questions That Generate Real Referrals
We’ve all been there: sitting across from a networking group member, chatting about movies, kids, and dogs, then walking away wondering how to actually help each other. If that’s how your one-on-ones feel, it’s time to get intentional.
One-on-ones are your chance to build genuine relationships and create meaningful referral opportunities. But they only work if you bring a purpose. Instead of letting conversations meander, go in with a set of strategic questions that help both of you understand how you can genuinely refer to each other.
The Five Questions That Matter
Where do your prospects come from?
Of course, referrals are part of the answer but dig deeper. Are they coming from past clients? Other networking groups? A specific sphere of influence? When you know exactly where they’re finding business, you know what to listen for and where to look when thinking of them.
Where do you find your time best spent on new connections?
Which rooms do they want to be in? What types of people and events matter most to them right now? If you already have access to those situations, you can open doors immediately—and they can stop wasting time at events that don’t serve them.
How do you track and stay in touch with your prospects?
This question reveals whether they have a solid follow-up system in place. It also gives you permission to suggest improvements. Better yet, if you see an opportunity to help a prospect of theirs, you know how and when to loop them in.
What marketing collateral do you have?
A business card, a brochure, something tangible you can hand off? Maybe you can pass it along. Maybe they don’t have what they need, and this conversation surfaces that blind spot. Either way, you’re helping them be better equipped to refer themselves.
What other business groups and events are you involved in?
Find the overlap. If you both care about the same communities or events, introduce them to people you know there. You multiply your impact by connecting them within your existing network.
There’s one bonus question worth asking: “What can NRG be doing to generate more referrals or increase membership?” It shifts you from passive participation to invested partnership and strengthens the whole group.
The goal isn’t to interrogate—it’s to listen strategically. When you show up with genuine curiosity and real questions, one-on-ones stop being small talk and start being the relationship-building tool they were meant to be.
Today’s Marketing Minute is brought to you by Lisa Kretzer of Employ-Ease.
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